Would you rather settle and be cheated on or look out for yourself and move on? This is a dilemma that most women will go through or may already be in. Watching last week episode of basketball wives I was shocked that a woman would knowingly go into a marriage being cheated on or be in marriage and know she’s being cheated on. I feel like that’s settling and not knowing your self worth. Marriage is a big commitment, and it’s now being thrown around like the word “love.” As women it’s our job to look out for OUR best interest because we all know guys will do what you allow them to! I’m married and there’s no way I would accept being cheated on and it doesn’t make it better if “he tells you” either way it’s wrong! If you commit to someone in a relationship you shouldn’t be cheating at all especially if you’re married. I know it’s different when you’re famous but that’s no excuse if you want to sleep around you should be single because a relationship means commitment to ONE person. Cheating not only puts you at risk for diseases but feelings get involved and you never know what someone may do from a broken heart. The fact that AIDS are everywhere and no one is exempt from it you would think that everyone would care about being in a monogamous relationship. Being realistic I know infidelity happens yes, you can forgive and work things out but it’s different when the guy/girl just don’t care and does it over and over that’s when you need to move on. Most people settle in bad relationships because they don’t want to be alone, afraid of failure, or their age but at no age or circumstance should you settle. If he or she truly love you they will be faithful. There are guys that are really good men but they just can’t commit those kind of guys need to be single until they can slow down and you should keep it on a “friends” level. If you know your man is sleeping around on you and you think he’s using protection every time you will be in for a rude awakening because most likely he’s not. You have to ask yourself “Do I stay here and settle or do I move on and know someone better will come along?” What are your thoughts on cheating in a relationships/marriages? Do you think its better to settle or move on? And under what circumstances should you move on?
